So, falling back on a childhood (ok, young adult) idol I'm going to take the following view 'Try not. Do, or do not. There is no try'. Yoda is the 'man'. The theory being I'm going to take each day as it comes, no worries about 'what I should be doing', no thoughts about plans I should be making, just living.
Here is inspiration for my new lifestyle:
Do you know of anything more self assured about their life than a cat? Japser is VERY self assured (and darn cute)!